Saturday, April 25, 2009

Pets & Picasso

Know why Sweet-Pea is so happy??


'Cause she's wearing this shirt!


Lionel isn't crazy about this shirt of hers, but he does think it's funny!! The funny part of it was that she was wearing it when we brought Cody to the vet to be groomed. They all loved her shirt! More business perhaps? =)

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The kids had to draw self portraits for our homeschool group yearbook. They weren't thrilled with having to do this project, but they were good sports and did it anyway. I think they came out great!!

Lionel:


Sweet-Pea:


The other day we went to see a Picasso exhibit. All his paintings tell me, was that he was a disturbed man! They are all so bizarre!! I love art, but I cannot relate to 'modern abstract art' one bit. Here's a photo I managed to capture before the guard informed us that no photos were allowed. Oops! He didn't seem to care that I took this one though.



I think my kids' portraits are so much better, don't you?!? = )

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Does my opinion matter?

The answer: probably not!!

Lately I seem to have developed a real aversion for Realtors and the whole Real Estate business. I can honestly say that I'm sick of the words "for sale", "binding contract", "mortgage", "open house", "make an offer" etc. etc. I'm also tired of cleaning my house for people who truly have no interest in seriously considering my home for purchase. I'm tired of strangers walking through my home opening up every closet door, cabinet and drawer! It's bad enough that the public has this 'right' while my home is for sale, but today one of the Realtors from the Real Estate office we're working with crossed the line!!

We had another open house today - yup, another one! The Realtor who was to do this open house did another one for a us couple weeks ago. All seemed fine when that one was over. He was kept busy with 14+ families walking through the house. This time there were only 5 families who came to the Open House...probably because it's just after Easter and most of the public schools around here had their Spring vacation. Anyhow....we returned home and he was still here alone in the house. We stood out on our front porch and talked for a few minutes before he left, and here are a few things he told us:

"It didn't go well, we only had 5 families."
My response: It figures.

"There's a house a mile from here that is your biggest competition. If you want to go see it, I'll take you there this week."
My response: WHY? Why would I want to see our biggest competition?? I did look up the house online and you know what? It's a LOT smaller than our home and isn't fixed up as nicely. HOW is it that it's our biggest competition? This Realtor was praising this house up and down right in front of us!!! That's very unprofessional.

"You'll sell your house soon." (Then in the next breath) "It's a tough market, you have lots of competition and people aren't buying. It could take a while."
My response: This guy has no idea what he's talking about! He's contradicting himself!

...and the last thing he said to us...sit down for this one...

"Oh, by the way, I used your computer to send an email. Mine isn't working."
My response: WHAT!?!?!?!?! When my husband told him that he hid our computer mouse (which is usually what we do for Open Houses - just in case) he said "Oh, I looked for it and found it." Again....WHAT!?!?!?!?! We were appalled - to say the least!

We called our 'real' Realtor up a little bit later and told her what he did. We told her how upset we were and that it was totally unacceptable! I looked on the computer to see what he actually did...yes, I'm a computer geek and can figure it out...and found that HE SENT AN OFFER FOR SOMEONE FOR ANOTHER HOUSE - WHILE DOING AN OPEN HOUSE FOR US!!!! I printed it out and saved all the information on my computer for proof. I not only have people's checking account numbers (from a check they gave as a deposit) but all their personal information. I bet he had no idea that we'd be able to access it. Shame on him! How unprofessional, not only to invade our personal space like that, but to put someone else's information on a stranger's computer!!! What really gets me is that he had to actually turn ON the computer and wait for it to boot up since it was off, AND...he had to look through our drawers to find the computer mouse. It was NOT in an obvious place!!! It lead me to think 'What else was this guy looking through while he was here?' Creepy! We will NOT allow him in our home ever again! A computer is private with personal information on it....our bank accounts, passwords etc. We were extremely upset and are not sure what to do about it next. Ideas??

So, as you can tell, I've had it with Realtors! Besides all this new mess...we are just tired of the games most of them play! We have been in touch with our buyers (the people who originally purchased our home, and who still want it once they get a buyer) and found that both their Realtor and our own Realtor have given false information to each of us. It's so frustrating!! We have become friends with these people now, yet when we were dealing with them only through the Realtors, we didn't like them for various reasons - all of which were brought upon by the Realtors because of false information.

We are still praying that God will allow our original buyers to sell their condo first, so we can sell our home to them. This would be the best care senario for us all. Please keep praying for us. If you're tired of reading all about our home sagas, I apologize. I'm sick of hearing about it too, but unfortunately it's been life consuming for us these days. I have also seen both of my kids suffering because of it. They were doing fine until recently. Most of their toys and things were packed away (since next week we were supposed to close on the new home and move), so they have been very bored and sad about it all. Please pray for them specifically! Thanks so much.

Until next time...

Saturday, April 18, 2009

Brilliant!!!

I've played in many orchestras and have never had the privilege of playing something as brilliant as this!! Believe me, in order for this to work correctly, you must have a not only a great conductor, but a great orchestra as well. Hope you enjoy watching as much as I did!


Thursday, April 16, 2009

Just Horse'n Around

We love horses! I think that if we had a large plot of land with enough room (and money) we just may own a couple.

We have a science fair coming up in our homeschool group, and Sweet-Pea chose to study all about horses for her project, so the other day we went to the local stables to learn more about these beautiful animals God created. Once we got past the smells in the stable, we had a great time!! The horses were simply beautiful, and they were very friendly.

One of Edward's friends has a daughter who rides here, so she took Sweet-Pea around to show her the tack room and all about the horses. It was so much fun!! Of course, I had my camera with me so I was able to snap a few (understatement!) photos. Here are some of them:

My favorite photo....it was all about timing!



The Stables


Hmm, what's he looking at??


Sweet-Pea...his new friend!


Visiting the Tack room with all the saddles, bridles and more.




Mmmmmmm.....sugar cubes are the best! Lionel had fun feeding the horses.


Sweet-Pea's favorite horse in the stables....Patches!




So beautiful...every one of them!


Sweet-Pea holding the horse shoe she was given. It took me almost an hour of scrubbing to get all the horse poo out of the nooks and crannies! Eew...but so worth it. It'll be hung on Sweet-Pea's bedroom wall!


If you want to learn more about horses, here are a few wonderful websites and ideas:

Have fun!!

Next week Lionel and Edward will be heading up to the Air Museum next week for some photos and a bit of learning. His project for the science fair will be about planes. Visiting the museum will be a blast for him I'm sure. If they get good photos, I'll post 'em here.

(On a side note...if any of you following our house saga is reading....please be in prayer tonight at 5:00 pm. There will be someone looking at the condo of the person who wants to buy our home. If they are able to sell their condo, then we will have ultimately sold our home too. This is the 2nd showing for them and they are cautiously optimistic about it. Please pray that they will sell so we can all close this chapter of our lives. It would be a HUGE weight lifted off our shoulders if this goes through. If not...then we continue with the selling process. Thanks!!)

Wednesday, April 08, 2009

I'm still here...

I've gotten a few emails from friends wondering where I've been and why my blog has been pretty quiet these days. I just haven't had the 'get-up-and-go' lately to sit at my computer and blog. I've been a bit down in the dumps, but fortunately Edward was home from work for a few days and that helped. We also watched the movie "Defeating the Giants". If you've never watched it, you need to! It's a must-see movie. I wasn't thrilled that the movie was about a football team, because honestly I can't stand that sport, but I have to say it was a great movie!! The movie was a LOT more about how to trust in God and how to wait on His timing for things. I needed to see this movie...it's helped give me peace about our own situation with the house.

So...what have we been up to? Well, we all went on a field trip to the local Superior Court. It was an amazing trip, and I'm sure that my kids had fun while also learning quite a bit about 'real life'. An attorney was our 'guide' and as we sat in one of the court rooms, he taught the kids about who works there, how things are run and why we need to have a court system. He didn't dumb it down at all which was great. Most trips our homeschool group has had lately, have been geared towards the younger kids since there are so many of them. This trip, although those who went were still mostly young (only about 1/5 of the group was there), was geared for older kids. Lionel had a blast! Sweet-Pea also learned a lot, but some of it went over her head.


The best part was that we got to sit in on several court cases. We were there over 3 hours in all, and about a hour of it was watching the judge deal with case after case....drunk drivers, larceny, battery, domestic disputes and more. The kids eyes were opened to some of the evil that is out there, especially when they got to see the actual perpetrators. They even got a tour of the criminal holding rooms, elevator (with special locked area) and more. When the judge came out, the Marshall announced all to rise etc. and the kids did it without question. We were able to sit in the front row, so they got a good taste of what court was like without distractions. They talked about it all the way home. Lionel said he never ever wants to be in that situation...phew...sigh of relief! ha ha

The attorney also gave us a tour of the Law Library and got the kids involved by pretending they were in certain situations that would require them to be in court. It was a great trip and we are so glad we went!!

After we got home, Sweet-Pea decided it was time to trim her bangs. She used to have bangs when she was very young, but she grew them out. She wasn't sure about it at first, but then she decided to go for it and now she's glad she did. She said it's so much easier and now her forehead doesn't get cold. She's so funny! Here she is holding up her cut hair...not enough for Locks of Love since it's just her bangs, but still, enough to put away for her scrapbook. =)

The rest of her hair is in a ponytail...it's not ALL cut! I don't think my heart could stand to see all her hair cut short. She's been growing it since birth - it's her trademark.





Side view:


As for news on the home-front...we had a GREAT open house this past Sunday. 14 families came through and 3 were seriously interested. One gave us a low-ball offer, but we refused it, especially since their Realtor sent it to our Realtor via email...probably because they were so embarrassed at how low it was (over $100,000 below asking price!!) It wasn't worth a counter offer...although we were tempted to counter it with $1.1 million!! We think they were just being rude. Anyhow, we have yet to hear from the other 2 families.

We also had another showing the other day, but that person said the house was too big for them. I'm not sure I understand why they were here then. They were in the house for over an hour. The Realtor knows the square footage of the house before coming, plus the fact that we have 5 bedrooms and 4 bathrooms should give it away that it's a larger home. We just feel like some Realtors don't 'get it'...they waste our time showing the house to people who aren't looking for what we're offering. I often see that on some of those HGTV shows. People ask for a 3 bedroom home and the Realtor takes them to see a 2 bedroom condo. Huh?!? It's amazing.

So...again, we wait. The people who originally wanted our home are still anxious to purchase it, only they now need to find another buyer. They too had a great open house on Sunday, but no official offers yet. I'm hoping they will sell first and we can all be done with this. I would actually hate to sell our home from under them when we know they still want it...but if we can sell it in the mean time, we will have to. We stand to lose the home we want to purchase if it takes too long. The builder is holding it for us for another month...so pray that we will be able to settle this with a contract in hand before then. We're not sure what God is doing, but we are trusting in Him for His perfect timing and His perfect will. In the mean time, we pray - LOTS!

Thursday, April 02, 2009

Questions & their musical answers...

...just for fun...

INSTRUCTIONS:
1. Put your music player on shuffle. I used my iTunes folder.
2. Press forward for each question.
3. Use the song title as the answer to the question even if it doesn’t make sense.

NO CHEATING!

How do you feel today?
God Help the USA -- by Mark Lowry (how funny - I totally didn't plan this one!!)

What’s your outlook on life?
Take me With You -- Stewart Dudley

What does your family think of you?
Charging Up the Hill -- Randy Edelman

What do your friends think of you?
Busy, Busy -- Veggietales (Sad but true!)

The Soundtrack of your life?
All of Me -- Selah

You and your best friends are?
Does Anybody Hear Her? -- Casting Crowns

Happy times:
Oh No, What You Gonna Do? -- Veggietales

Sad times:
Put Your Head on My Shoulder -- Michael Buble (how appropriate!)

Every day:
Praise You in this Storm -- Casting Crowns (Amen!)

For tomorrow:
Hymn A L'Amore -- Josh Groban

For you:
You Raise Me Up-- Selah

What does next year have in store for me?
My Heart, Your Home -- Watermark

What do I say when life gets too hard?
Some Things Never Change -- Mark Lowry

What do you want as your career?
Home to Stay -- Josh Groban (perfect!!)

Your favorite saying?
To Be Sung of a Summer Night on the Water -- Cambridge Singers
(uh...no, I don't think so!)

How will I die?
Wishing You Were Somewhere Here Again -- Andrew Lloyd Webber


OK, so some of them weren't that funny, but still, it was brainless and I needed to do something fun like that. I have a gazillion songs on my iTunes folder, but it didn't shuffle them all that well...but I did do it the right way...without cheating. =) Give it a try and post a comment so I can come visit your blog answers.

Monday, March 30, 2009

Bad news

It's never ever good to get a phone call with bad news...but that's exactly what happened this morning. The people set to purchase our home have been packing and getting excited to move, just as we have been doing for our new home. The people buying their condo just decided to back out of the deal, walking away from it all, leaving both ourselves and our buyers high and dry. They were pre-approved for their mortgage and last minute decided to switch banks. That 2nd bank turned them down, giving them the legal opportunity to walk away. Not fair if you ask me! They were approved again by the 1st bank, but now they don't want to go through with it because they got 'spooked'. It's so unbelievable.

Both our buyers and ourselves were set to move...they've planned things with a contractor for changes they wanted to make on our home, and we've ordered carpets, appliances and light fixtures for our new home. So, if they can't buy our home, and we can't buy our new home, what now?!?

Fortunately the builder of our new home will hold it for us (for a while anyway), but that doesn't help out financially as we sit and wait for the money on our current home. I'd say 2/3 of our home is packed up. It's a mess, a disaster area and is totally not in 'show' condition. Our Realtor told me on the phone that we will have an open house here this Sunday. What?? Guess what I'll be doing all week...cleaning, straightening out and in between the tears, getting ready to re-sell?!?

I am in shock. I am in disbelief. I am totally and completely numb! I ask myself over and over why the Lord would allow this to happen, and I have no idea why. What is He trying to teach us? What is this 'test' of our faith for? I won't have the answers right now, but hopefully one day I will. In the mean time, I will be praying, crying, trusting and waiting.

Please pray for us. We have lost so much money already in caring for my Dad over the past few years, we are in fear of losing much more if our home doesn't sell. It's scary and I fear that my husband (or myself) will get sick over all of this. Stress is a BAD thing! Pray that our original buyers' home would sell and that we would be able to continue this process we've already begun with them. Pray for peace. Pray that God will give us the strength to 'wait on Him'. Pray for our children. I have no desire to homeschool them right now...not a good thing. Pray that they will continue to learn through this experience and that we will catch up on our 'book work' as time goes on. Thanks...I'll keep you posted.

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Birthday Wishes

Today is Lionel's 14th birthday!! I can't believe it...where has the time gone?!? I am so proud to be his Mom and feel blessed that he is my son.



14 things I love about Lionel: (Just the tip of the iceberg!)
  1. He loves the Lord
  2. His big smile - dimples and all
  3. His proficiency on the violin
  4. His desire to learn things about history on his own
  5. His silliness
  6. That he enjoys shopping with me
  7. His eagerness to learn
  8. His kindness to animals
  9. That he is so smart
  10. His caring spirit - like when he helped care for my Dad
  11. His creativity
  12. The way he builds models with his grandfather
  13. That he still has a passion for his Lionel trains
  14. That he is my son and I GET to raise him!! What an honor!
Happy birthday my boy! I love you SO very much. May you always keep Christ first in all you do and serve him all your days. Keep making us proud!!
Love, Mommy


Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Very cool video

Found this video online and thought I'd share it here....it's very cool!




Sunday, March 22, 2009

Twins

Lionel finished the model plane he was working on. He built this one himself so he could surprise Grandpa. Today we went over to visit my in-laws and Lionel brought the finished plane with him. Needless to say, Grandpa was surprised and VERY impressed. He built the same exact model years ago, so I snapped a photo of the two of them together with their planes.

They look great, don't they?



Here are a couple photos of Grandma and Grandpa's garage ceiling. Hmm, I wonder where Lionel got his inspiration from?!? =) Grandpa built these models himself...they are all replicas of real planes. I have to say that I think they look much better in person - very cool!





So far Lionel has now built 3 planes, and they're working on the 4th together. This time it's a big one! I'm sure one day his own garage will look very similar to this one. = )

Friday, March 20, 2009

Feelin' boxed in

This is a familiar scene in our home these days!


The walls are looking empty, the closets are cleaned out and the floors have now been taken over by big brown boxes! It's exciting but scary at the same time. We've never moved before (the first move from our condo into this house didn't count really, we were newlyweds at the time and hardly had anything), so this is all so new to us. I don't like the uneasy feeling!!! I'm a total organization freak, so not knowing where things are is bothering me. The boxes are all clearly labeled and sealed up, so it won't be hard to figure out where they'll go in our new home, so that should help.

The kids' toy closet...no room for anything but boxes now!




I can't even begin to tell you how many boxes we have filled already (thanks Lowes!)...and how many more we have yet to fill. We've gone through a bunch of tape rolls already and don't even get me started on bubble wrap and packing paper...which is definitely way overpriced for what it's worth!!!

The finished room in our basement is now a holding spot for packed boxes!


Cody has had enough already! He is tired of hearing the tape dispenser make that loud swooshing noise. He's tired of seeing all our 'stuff' moved from one room to another, and I'm sure is wondering what in the world is going on. Fortunately he will be at the pet spa for a few days when we do the actual move, but in the mean time...you can be praying for the adjustment he'll have to make in our new home. After what he went through in his life, this could once again be traumatizing for him. Here's his story if you've never read it.


Well, I'm off to find what else I can pack....I'm not sure where the kids are right now...I hope I didn't pack 'em! =)