Update on my Dad

A few people have emailed to ask how my Dad is doing, so here's an update...

He spent the past 8 days in the hospital. As you probably read in my previous post, he was brought in with several problems, the biggest being congestive heart failure and very high blood pressure. They were able to remove a lot of fluid around his lungs and heart this week, but the doctors said it will most likely get bad again in a short time. They also found that his kidneys have given up working like they should, so he was diagnosed with having kidney failure. Since his wishes are not to linger and prolong the inevitable, we are choosing not to do dialysis.

The middle of the week was the most difficult for Dad, and for our family. He did not look good at all. He's no longer walking and it takes all he has to sit up in a chair. By last night, he was doing better, but still not well. There is nothing more the hospital can do for him, so it's basically a matter of time before his body shuts down and gives in to the struggle to live. Dad is not fully aware and basically has no understanding of what's going on. He didn't even recognize me the other day which was a bit heartbreaking. At this point, we're asking the Lord to call him home. That's the best thing for Dad.

So...they transported him back to the nursing home he was previously in. Tomorrow we call Hospice to have them come evaluate him and see what needs to be done to keep him comfortable. Dad is not the same, he will never be the same, so I'm ready for what's to come. I only pray that it's quick and that God is merciful to him. He is a wonderful Christian man and I know that giving up his earthly body for a heavenly one would be the best thing!! Please pray with me for Dad.

Here are a few photos.....

Dad when he was barely 20 years old - I love this photo!


Lionel gave my Dad a homemade worm for his birthday one year.


My Dad and Sweet-Pea, just a few months after she was born.


Lionel, Sweet-Pea and PaPa on our swingset - a scene that I saw quite often when Dad was living here with us. I miss those days already!!!


Dad...only a month or two before he ended up in the nursing home.


Thanks in advance for your prayers. I will update with any changes.